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We’re the Robledo Family and we're here to inspire you to boldly and unapologetically live outside the box, dream big, and question everything. We are here to show you how to DEFY THE NORM. Back in 2015, Robyn and her husband, Victor, decided to ditch the rat race with their 5 kids in tow. They moved their family into a 30 foot RV, and began traveling the world in search of epic trails to hike, rocks to climb, and waves to surf. Along with their full-time RV life, they traveled to 26 countries in search of adventure, fulfillment, and purpose. In the journey, they discovered a new reality. The reality that...Life is an endless sea of opportunity and it’s best experienced right outside your comfort zone. We’re here to inspire you to do the same. Robyn Robledo, Co-founder of Nomads With A Purpose, aims to share inspiration on life, confidence, purpose, and bravery to go against the grain as she interviews her family and other figures of radical bravery and stoke.
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Saturday Dec 21, 2024
Saturday Dec 21, 2024
In a raw and vulnerable podcast episode, Victor and Robyn share their journey of navigating marriage, parenthood, and personal growth.
Their story reveals a common relationship challenge: The delicate balance between prioritizing your spouse and your children.
The Roots of Disconnection:
Robyn candidly admits that for years, she chose her children over her husband. This wasn't a deliberate decision, but a gradual process rooted in several factors:
1. Changing Dynamics: As their family grew and children became more involved in activities, their relationship shifted from being couple-centered to child-centered.
2. Unaddressed Expectations: Small feelings of betrayal and unmet expectations began to create distance between them.
3. Individual Pursuits: Victor's jujitsu and Robyn's yoga and surfing became separate activities that further pulled them apart.
The Self-Care Connection: A key insight from their conversation is the critical role of self-care. Victor, in particular, requires extensive daily self-care - sometimes up to 4-5 hours - to feel grounded and balanced. This includes: - Listening to educational content - Stretching and mobility work - Breathwork - Workouts - Running - Mobility Therapy
What Keeps Them Together Despite their challenges? Two things have sustained their relationship:
1. Open-mindedness: Both are willing to listen and explore new ideas. 2. Self-discipline: Each are commitment to physical health and self-improvement
The Missing Piece: Shared Vision
Currently, they're working to develop a shared vision for their future. Robyn emphasizes the importance of not just existing, but actively creating something meaningful together.
Key Takeaways:
- Relationships require constant communication and realignment
- Self-care is crucial, but shouldn't come at the expense of connection
- Maintaining individual growth while nurturing the relationship is challenging but possible
Recommended Resources:
- "The Gene Keys" by Richard Rudd
- Beatrice Chestnut's Enneagram book on 27 types
Their story is a testament to the complexity of long-term relationships and the ongoing work required to maintain them.
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